Learning to Write or at least trying

I am really trying to learn how to write. The problem is everyone gives a different way to do it. OK,so which way is the right way? Some talk about letting the creativity flow thru you. Kind of being a transcriber more than writing. I think this is a great idea the problem is things are not flowing. Imagine that. Is it only something you are born with? The ability to write? Or is it a process a certain procedure? At this point I say who the heck knows? Anyone have any advice??